Swinging Suggestions

Stay together as much as it be felt to be , but do not hold onto one another like each one's life depended on it, or seem clingy, as this may make it more difficult for other couples to approach yours.

As time goes on at the swinger party there may be general disrobing. Only go as far as it be wanted to and feel comfortable with. the swinger couple may be accepted if both chose to remain fully clothed, although it is recommended that yo try to include as much as possible, changing into something more revealing may help others include the newbies and make them feel more involved.

Be honest with each other about your emotions. If anyone feel jealous of his/her partner, or have any other uncomfortable feelings then tell him/her , otherwise, they may only come out later and be much more awkward and damaging.

Do not worry about asking the hosts or other guests questions, swingers are generally interested in meeting new people, and may help explain the lifestyle as much as possible.

If there is a hot tub or spa for instance, try to use it, being nude, close to other people with a valid reason may be helpful to make new friends. Try as hard as it be possible to leave all inhibitions at home, both sexual and social. These may interfere with the swinging pleasure, one can't expect to get much out of a swingers party without being prepared to put much in. Do not pretend to be someone else, be friendly and good natured.

A warm smile has a positive effect on every body.